Good Intention Is not Enough
You can see your friend painting the wall of his house.You can't see anybody help him.Seeing this,you are offering him a help and say "Can I help you?". He then say "Oh,really? That's most kind of you". And you then start helping him finishing painting the wall.While you and he are painting the wall,he gets a call from his wife and he has to leave to meet his wife because she wants him to take her to a drugstore.